Thirty-Something Never Felt So Good

Watching Documentaries on GMO's & Reading Books on Tidying Up

In a few short weeks I turn 36, never imagining I'd be turning the corner into my late thirties. By this age my mom had four kids with another one on the way. To me, that kind of responsibility would be incomprehensible. Nowadays, people seem more selfish or more cautious or maybe both, myself included. After seeing the devastation my parents’ divorce had on the family, it's certainly not something I'd like to experience.

Instead, my thirties have been a turning point in my life, wild, wonderful and carefree. I finished up teaching English overseas in South Korea and moved to Chicago to earn a Master's Degree. I became an aunt, twice. But most of all, I've taken the time to care for myself. I've learned what works for me and what doesn't, and honestly I don't have time for the latter. 

Recently, I’ve been Netflixing stand-up comedians like Chris Rock, Dave Chappelle and Ali Wong. One described your thirties as a time when you start doing strange things like watching documentaries on GMO's and reading books like, The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up. Which ironically, I’m totally guilty of (you should see my drawers). But through it all I’ve learned to lighten up on myself and really focus on what matters.

My thirties have helped me realize how precious life truly is and that I don't have time to feel like shit about myself or waste on others who are negative. I've worked really hard to manage my daily life and expectations. I'm tough on myself (but not too tough). I do what I love. I eat well. I exercise often. I get my sleep. I take care of myself.  

One indulgence I’ve adopted is to really honor myself as each birthday roles around. Instead of stressing over birthday celebrations, I’ll be off exploring an unfamiliar intoxicating land with zero expectations for the day. Exploring the unknown truly sets my soul on fire and who doesn't need more of that. This year, I planned a trip to Cuba but with damage from Hurricane Irma I've rescheduled to Ireland and my journey begins in Dublin, a city rich in history and friendly as can be.