Lessons learned as I reach my forty-second trip around the sun.

What it means to be you. Authenticity, self discovery and the confidence to be different.

How moving to Korea sparked a discovery that might not have happened otherwise and what it looked like to start dating women in such a strange land.

What it feels like to be in your mid-thirties: a season of gentle change and quiet revelation. The latter half of my thirties has unfurled into unexpected freedom — a soft, steady confidence that comes from finally knowing who you are and what you’ll no longer compromise on.